Thursday, February 23, 2012

Why Do We Have So Much?

This past weekend, my church continued our new series "Rich People Syndrome," by getting us to think about why we have so much. If you're interested in seeing/listening to the original message, click HERE.

Interestingly enough, this is a message that my husband and I have been reflecting on all week. In fact, this week, my husband dropped his car off at the shop for what we feared would cost several thousand dollars. He received a call today that the repair would only cost $500. While thankful, we had to ask ourselves what the average person...living paycheck to paycheck...does when they're met with that sort of bill? Just moments later, he was pulled over for something silly - silly or not, there's definitely a fine. A few hours later, we were on our way home when we hit a deer. Not only did we lose a life, but we've got the financial cost of our deductible...and probably an increase in our insurance policy. Again - how does the average person/family handle these types of unexpected expenses...and why have we been blessed with enough to be able to deal? 

I tell you this story because if God wanted our money, he would just take it. But he sees our money as a resource to help build his kingdom. Our money is also a test of our loyalty. As you'll recall in Luke 16:13, "No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” I do believe that my husband and I have done a good job of saving our money. We don't live above our means, but if we dwell on the money that we're losing as a result of these recent experiences rather than being thankful that we have even have the resources, we've missed the point. God never throws us more than we can handle. 

To that point, many people find themselves carrying financial burdens that are almost too much to bear - and in some cases, to no fault of their own. I've read stories of families who were faced with health-related issues that literally bankrupt them. In times like these, we become extra spiritual. We're never afraid to ask for help in those times of need. On the other hand, so many people find themselves increasing their lifestyle as they increase their income...and as a result, increasing financial pressure. It's not a "need" problem...it's a "want" problem...perhaps even a "greed" problem. In a culture that teaches us to keep asking, "why don't I have more," shouldn't we be asking "why do I have so much?" When we seem to have enough, we hardly stop to give praise...we just ask for more.
So What Scripture Consider the parable of the rich fool (click HERE). In the story, a rich farmer has excess crop...so much so that he runs out of storage room. Rather than give away some of the excess, he decides to tear down his barns and build bigger barns. With this news (Luke 12:20-21), “God said to him, ‘You fool! This very night your life will be demanded from you. Then who will get what you have prepared for yourself?’ “This is how it will be with whoever stores up things for themselves but is not rich toward God.” Our lives do not consist of an abundance of possessions. If I relate this back to yesterday's situation, I feel like this scripture hit us square between the eyes. Lesson learned. 

If we have extra, it is not so we can increase our lifestyle...it is so we can be rich towards God. How do we do that? 
GIVE (in church we're often told to give 10% - that's typically a guideline, but we can always give more), SAVE (if you don't have a savings account, start one - direct deposits are a great way to go so you never see the money to begin with) and LIVE ON THE REST.
If there's extra, we should be taking a step back and asking if there's a need we can answer. If we find that we can't follow the above formula, then perhaps we should scale back...that may mean selling some things on eBay or Craig's List so we can go back to living within our means.

With that said, why do YOU think we have so much? 
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Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Last Chance: Love Letters to Kitty Paw Photo Challenge

Kitty Paw Valentine's Day Card RS
First of all...am I the only one singing Donna Summer right now? "Last dance, last chance for love. Yes, it's my last chance, for romance tonight. I need you by me, beside me, to guide me, to hold me, to scold me 'cause when I'm bad I'm so, so bad. So let's dance the last dance. Let's dance the last dance. Let's dance this last dance tonight." Alright - I'll quit.

The Love Letters have been rolling in the past few days, but Kitty Paw wanted me to remind you that you have just a few more hours to share your love and creativity. And in case you think I'm a total nut for hosting such a photo challenge...click HERE to read a short history of Love Letters to Kitty Paw. When you're done reading, I hope you'll be inspired to join!

The Rules (inspired by The Paper Mama):
  • Your "love letter" must include a photo (the photo does not have to be taken by you, but you need to have permission to use it). It can be edited to your hearts desire... but, there MUST be a photo.
  • You need to be the creator! I'm sorry: you can't have someone else create it for you. Please use your own design.
  • Your "letter" can be digitally made or handcrafted, but should include a photo (could be your pet, children, yourself, etc. - it does not have to be another cat)
  • A blog post (with a photo of your "Love Letter to Kitty Paw") will need to be linked to the linky below to be entered into the challenge.
  • One entry per person.
  • PG please. Maybe PG-13... Let's keep things family friendly.
  • I do have the right to delete or disqualify any entrant if I feel it doesn't follow the rules.
  • You can link up your photo through February 22, 2012 11:59 PM Eastern Standard Time.
  • Top 10 winners (unless you guys happen to surprise me and we get 100 entries) will be chosen by a panel of judges and me...then voted on by all of you. Actually, I may just allow you to vote on all entries.
  • Voting will start on February 24, 2012 and will end on February 28, 2012 11:59 AM EST.
  • All blog post entries should link back to this post. You can grab a button below. Thanks!

Please, let me know if you have ANY questions! You can email me


The Goodies: Much like last year, I thought it might be nice if you won something for all of your creativity...especially since I'm requesting a love letter to my cat (as if I couldn't get strange enough). There will be THREE winners this year. First, second, and third place! Here's a list of the prizes and sponsors: 

A $15 Credit to A Paris Boutique
(cute bows, tutus, fleece blankets, personalized pillows and dresses)
 
A $25 Credit to Getting Crafty.
(custom bridal/baby hangers, photo props and camera straps)

Sterling Silver and Swarovski Crystal Pendent (chain not included - $24 value) by WyBeadery.
(check out her Facebook page for more beautifully designed jewelry)