Great Expectations
Christmas is the season of great expectations. Yes expectations are high…between the parties, presents, dinners and family…it all should be leading up to the birth of Jesus Christ. But with all the anticipation, it starts to feel like an overdue engagement. And after a while, the excitement turns into exhaustion…we just want it to be over.

Interestingly enough, these feelings of excitement and exhaustion existed long before department stores started decorating in October (or rather September). Joseph felt quite similar when he found out Mary was going to have a baby. Matthew 1:18-23 says,
This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.

But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.”

All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel” (which means “God with us”).
Can you even imagine being Joseph? He was about to marry the love of his life and he finds out that she’s pregnant. Too long ago? Imagine that happening today. It wasn’t too long ago in the United States that if a woman got pregnant before marriage, she was sent away to have the baby in privacy… and it was much the same way (even more taboo) then. 

So there Joseph is, confused and scared. It would have been easy for him to send Mary away…or marry her now and later divorce her after the baby is born…he could have even thrown her under the bus, but he didn’t.
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But you know that’s not how the story goes. Matthew 1:24-25 says, “When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.” Joseph obeyed God’s calling though…he loved Mary, he protected her and he played the part that he was called to serve. 

What does this mean for us? How do we, like Joseph, do right by Mary and the child she carries? It’s not too late for us to get Christmas right this year…so what choice will we make?
PS: this message was adapted from Salem United Methodist Church’s Sunday message. 

    What a perfect photo to illustrate the verse! Still working on obedience myself!

    Thanks for this girly! We all usually take a moment to sit back & think about what we’re all truly thankful for, this time of year. This also reminded me that it’s also a good time to think about things we can work on. Great post!

    Beautiful post. It’s good to see people reminding others of what the true meaning of Christmas is. Thanks for the challenge.

    Beautiful and so true. I often feel like Joseph is the “forgotten” one – but the story – and our salvation – could not be complete without all the players and their obedience. What an incredible act of service to God.

    I want to get Christmas right this year too.

    Cool shot!

    I can’t even imagine being Joseph. He’s a good example to all of obeying God even when everyone around you thinks you’re crazy.

    It is never to late to ponder the truth, the reality of the Christmas story. I have often thought about Joseph and his obedient response. I have asked, “Will I be obedient even if others think I am crazy?”

    All too often, I have caved and gone along with what our culture accepts, but God continues working on me and challenging me to follow the less traveled road of obedience.

    Thanks for this, it’s been ever on my mind this Christmas season. I want to make it more about Jesus and less about us. I want Emma to grow up with this perspective. It’s certainly what we should have!! Love that shot!

    Sometimes Joseph gets lost in the background of the Christmas story, but his obedience and courage are such an important example for us! Thanks for sharing, Ashley!

    Never really paid to much attention to Joseph’s role in the birth of Christ. What a testament to obedience, faith, and love.