For Our Own Good
This past weekend, our church continue our series, “Written in Red: The Radical Sayings of Jesus”(if you’d like to hear this past week’s original message, click HERE). This week, we explored what Jesus said in John 16:4-7:
“I have told you this, so that when their time comes you will remember that I warned you about them. I did not tell you this from the beginning because I was with you, but now I am going to him who sent me. None of you asks me, ‘Where are you going?’ Rather, you are filled with grief because I have said these things. But very truly I tell you, it is for your good that I am going away. Unless I go away, the Advocate will not come to you; but if I go, I will send him to you.
To place this scripture into context, Jesus was speaking to his disciples in the final moments of his life before he was arrested and later crucified. If we back up even further, his disciples were all of Jewish descent. The Jews believed (and you can correct me if I’m wrong) in a coming of the Messiah. They believed that Jesus was the Messiah, and that he would essentially erase thousands of years of pain and suffering. So, as Jesus is telling his disciples that he’s leaving…they are a bit confused and filled with grief because they can’t imagine how God’s kingdom is supposed to come if Jesus leaves. They can’t imagine how God’s promise can be fulfilled without Jesus being physically present.

I can only begin to imagine what they must have felt during this conversation (I almost equated it to the loss of a close family member, but that still doesn’t seem to parallel), but Jesus tells them (and tells us) that it’s for their own good…and that unless he goes away, the Advocate/Counselor/Father/Holy Spirit will not come to us.

The original message dives into several other scriptures…and if you have a moment, I encourage you to listen to the full message (linked above). But, let’s just consider what life would be like if Jesus never left us. He might have stayed in Jerusalem…so his ministry would have likely been limited to that region of the world. If he never left, God’s promise for us might never have been fully fulfilled. Ephesians 1:23 says,
God placed all things under his feet and appointed him (Jesus) to be head over everything for the church (US – you and me), which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.
It is not just coincidence that we have the lives we have right now – as complicated and messy as they sometimes are. We have been strategically placed by GOD into our specific families, our specific jobs, our specific geographies, surrounded by our specific set of friends and coworkers, etc. to carry out God’s plan. WE are the body of CHRIST and we were created to fulfill the promise. Therefore it is up to us to live a life worthy of the calling we’ve received (paraphrased from Ephesians 4:1).
Ephesians 4_1 RSSo, what do we do with this? For starters, we’ve got to get out of our old habits that cause us to have “holier than thou” attitudes. You know what I’m talking about…those attitudes that make us think we’re better off if we only hang with those just like ourselves. We’re not called to isolate ourselves (if that were the case, Jesus never would have left). Rather, we’re called to grow and share together. Besides, lives never change as the result of an awesome bible study or an incredible church message…they change when two people connect…and when one believer stops talking long enough to listen to a new believer. 

With all that said, as Christians we’re all looking forward to Jesus’ return to earth. Whether that be tomorrow, December 21st of this year (ya know, according to the Mayan calendar) or years from now…it’s up to us to share HIS kingdom with others everyday…RIGHT NOW. And THAT is why Jesus left.


    Very well done today – makes you think! That part about not just associating with those like us is the hard part, isn’t it? We feel so smug, up there in our church, all saved and stuff…and we forget that once, we were just like everyone else. A very important watershed moment for me! Thanks, Ashley!

    I feel like this is a lesson that I’m constantly learning as I get older. I loved what you said when you said that lives never change from the church sermons or bible study. It’s so true that it really is about the human connection; people sharing and growing in their love of Christ. Hoping all is well and that you have a great day!

    Inspiring…thank you.

    So well said Ashley! This is a topic we often discuss in this house. We do try to focus on living how He wants us to & taking the path He has given us & giving it all our effort & giving each day all it deserves.

    Wonderful post and awesome photo. This post really makes you think about how we should be living our life. Thank you.

    Ashley. I always look forward to reading these posts. Really make you think about how much God has given us, & how we truly need to live our lives as an example of his great love! Thank you lovely mama, & God bless your sweet growing family!!

    Hello Mrs.Ashley,
    I was wandering what you meant by swing or drop for SHS? Do you mean by an actual swing and/or a dropping object? It’s a little confusing.
    -Moira (Farm Girl)

    I’m a bit behind in blog posts, but this again is another one of your excellent, thought provoking posts. Thank you for taking the time to sum up your church’s series for us.

    Fantastic picture but an even more fantastic post! Those of us that are saved need to spend time paying attention to those around us who aren’t.

    Wonderful message and one I desperately needed to hear! While I tend not to be “religious” at work with my clients (for ethical reasons since I am not a pastoral counselor), unless they bring it up first, I need this for myself. Doing what I do, it is so very easy to get burnt out and wonder why I’m even doing what I do. I get stressed and busy and overwhelmed and lose sight of the idea that God put me in this position for a reason. I’m going to post Ephesians 4:1 in my office to remind me daily. Thank you!